So, we're sort of dating but I think he's shy about me and afraid to date me. I'm younger and ambitious and it seems maybe he's a bit miffed by the fact that I have lots of friends and do lots of things. Seems he's the kind who likes to cuddle on the sofa and watch movies - which is cool, but not for me all of the time. He went on a snowboarding trip to CO and invited me. I was interested but I passed...thought it wasn't a good idea since he son was going. They need time together. He got back yesterday. I know he was exhausted but he sent a quick e-mail checking in. Nice. Called me this morning. I got his message a few hours ago. Is it wrong if I don't him back today? I want to date him but I don't want anything super serious. I want a relationship with him but I don't want to be attached at the hip. Debating whether to him tonight or whether I should wait til tomorrow. Ah, the dance of dating. :/ Maybe I'll just him. I'm not the kind for games. I'm tired and not in the mood for a long conversation but it always turns into that. I also don't want to have him waiting to hear from me. I DID respond to his e-mail yesterday and told him to whenever he'd recovered. I just don't want to be on the phone for an hour! I'm more of an in-person gal. Where I can be 'hands-on' *wink

^^Thinking out loud. Sorry. lol Debating.

If you aren't serious, you should back off of this one.

^^this, why waste his time? or at least talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Well, I've been more of the chaser than he has been. Really. He's significantly older and even though I can tell he really likes me, he has a hard time being close to me. I think he's afraid of his feelings for me. Hmmmm. Actually, he ed me x hours ago. That's more than just a few. AND I was free all day today. He knows this.

Re-read my post.

I think I could be fairly serious. I'm just not sure where he's coming from, I guess. he's got me confused.

He has children, correct? He's been married Bx, correct?

Never married. His son's x.

How much older? How old are you?

I'll be x on Friday. He's...erm...uh...older. ;)

jesus, you are insufferable, and probably

you may need to him this