need to try anal Anyone in the Columbus, Georgia area, I am looking to have my first anal.

Same boat here man in Florida and have never tried anal but am craving it so bad. Although I am NOT a fan of pain I guess it cums with the territory huh?

So just go do it already Sheesh, whining about it on line is just pathetic.

So does being so bitter that you have to try to make yourself feel better buy trashing peoples comments.

Hey Firefun... I don't think it's so much bitternes as it is fatigue. You're new to the forum, you're new to anal sex (or would like to be). 3 to 4 times a day we'll get some (usually) married "str8" guy stumbling into the forum wanting his "first time". For myself, being out and in a monogamous relationship with another guy, it frustrates me to think of these guys cheating on their wives and trying to "hook up" in a discussion forum, all the while bashing gay guys to their friends and adamantly proclaiming ot us "I don't like men, I just like dick!!". It's rude, homophobic and condescending who have come to terms with ourselves and orientations. I'm not trying to say that those things are true of you and "packme", but chances are... The disdain that some posters get treated with in here is primarily caused by a reaction to seeing the same stuff all the time. It's not personal.

All I am saying is that there tend to be alot of people in here who cry about being judged and turn around and do it themselves. These subjects are sensitive and I understand that but I guess I was just hoping to find more people that would practice tolerance and patience as opposed to just preaching it.

Let's try this again.

Ah, but see there's the thing... being badly treated for being who you are being honest about your life is different than sneaking around behind someone's back and then lying about it. Those people put their partner's and their families at risk and it's just dishonest. I treat everyone who practices dishonesty the same way whether they are gay or straight or whatever. I wasn't saying you are doing anything wrong...this forum is open, do or say what you want. I was just offering what I thought was a reasonable explanation for the way some people are treated when they come in here bleating about wanting their first dick.

I am not doing anything behind my wife's back...she knows about my curiosity's and is comfortable with them yet I am talked to like I am making an attempt to cheat on her or doing something without her knowledge of it and that's not the case.

I'm glad you are being open with your wife. I took care to make sure I didn't accuse you personally of anything. Everyone's situation is different. Many of the "straight" married guys who come in here looking for dick are not honest. I was just trying to explain why you were getting the attitude you were getting...not to mention that this is a discussion forum and doesn't work at all well for hookups since the audience is international.

Judging? I'm not judging I'm just pointing out how pathetic your behavior is. If that's how you like being perceived, more power to ya. Go on and talk forever about how "desperate" you are to do something and never do it. But go whine about it somewhere else. Its boring.

Try looking at the top posts just from Columbus you sound like a pack of frustrated mother fuckers down there.

Condoms! Problem solved

what a dummy!